The Bark Side Chronicles: (Episode 11) Dog Feeding Routine Mayhem: Battle of the Bowls and the Delicate Dance of Diplomacy
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- Jul 31
- 5 min read
Updated: Aug 30
“Three dogs. Three personalities. One kitchen floor. What could possibly go wrong?”
Every dog owner thinks they have a feeding routine... until they have three dogs. And not just any three dogs — wildly different personalities who view dinner as a sport, a ritual, and in Mila’s case, a personal power play.
Our house at feeding time isn’t peaceful. It’s not structured. It’s not even logical. It’s war.
And like any great war, it started with good intentions, poor planning, and one German Shepherd puppy with absolutely no self-control.
Meet the Dinner Disaster Squad
Feeding one dog is simple. Feeding two is manageable. Feeding three is like trying to cater a banquet for a toddler, a food critic, and an emotional support coach.
Milo, our sweet, sensitive Vizsla, stands nearly 3 feet tall, 90 pounds of patient muscle. He waits for permission, watches your face, and won’t eat until you say “okay” with exactly the right tone.
Mila, the 14-pound Chihuahua gremlin, demands her food be placed near — but not too near — her pillow fortress. She’ll sniff it, maybe take a bite. If anything touches her dish, it’s over.
And Mesa? Our 8-month-old German Shepherd puppy is an eating machine. Half the size of Milo but with twice the appetite, she spins in circles while you prepare the food, licks the floor in anticipation, and dives face-first into her bowl like she’s trying to dig to China.
🧨 The First Attempt (A.K.A. The Great Spill)
I remember the day I thought, “I’ll feed them all at once. How hard could it be?”
The answer?
Very.
Dangerously.
Kitchen-stampede-level hard.
I placed three bowls on the floor. I said “Wait.” Milo sat, trembling with effort. Mila barked in protest. Mesa — bless her tornado heart — couldn’t wait another second. She dove straight into the nearest bowl. Milo’s bowl.
Milo grunted as if to say hey that's not fair. Mesa didn’t notice or didn't care, one of the two. Mila fled. I tripped over her. One bowl flipped. Then another. Then Mesa stepped in her own food and skated across the tile like a figure skater powered by kibble.
Dinner was canceled. I ate string cheese over the sink and reconsidered my life.
Building the Dog Feeding Routine (a.k.a. Peacekeeping Protocol)
After that... I did my homework.
Dog behaviorists say routines reduce anxiety and reinforce trust. Each dog needs:
Space to eat without guarding
Consistency in timing and placement
And a release word to know when it’s okay to dive in
So we created The System.
Step 1: Everyone goes to their assigned spot.
Step 2: They must sit and wait until I say “Okay.”
Step 3: I put the bowls down… in order.
Step 4: I release them one at a time, like launching rockets.
It didn’t go smoothly at first.
Mila barked through the entire setup. Mesa vibrated with energy. Milo did that thing where he tries so hard to be good that he looks like he’s about to explode.
But over time — repetition, rewards, and a very firm voice — they started to get it.
The Feeding Personalities (a Behavioral Breakdown)
Mesa
Speed: Mach 3
Strategy: Hoover it all, then check others’ bowls
Training focus: Respect boundaries. No bowl surfing.
Special note: She sometimes forgets she’s eaten and circles like a Roomba in denial.
Milo
Speed: Controlled and tidy
Strategy: Sit, wait, make eye contact, receive emotional approval, then eat
Training focus: Confidence. Eat before Mesa circles in.
Special note: Once gave up his dinner to Mila because she stared at him. I gave him extra later. Justice was served.
Mila
Speed: Suspiciously slow
Strategy: Sniff. Evaluate. Walk away. Come back when no one’s looking.
Training focus: Eat when it’s time. Stop judging us.
Special note: Once refused to eat until her bowl was moved 2 inches to the left.
🌅 The First Peaceful Meal
It was dusk. The kitchen was quiet.
I placed the bowls down. Mesa sat, trembling but still. Milo waited, eyes soft, tail still. Mila didn’t bark. She just watched.
I gave the command: “Okay.”
Mesa dashed. Milo stepped in gracefully. Mila blinked… then actually ate without protest.
And for the first time, I didn’t hover. I sat back, watched, and sipped my coffee.
It was quiet. No growling. No theft. No spills. Just the sound of three dogs eating in harmony.
💡 What Dinner Taught Me About Dogs (And Life)
I used to think dinner was about food. It’s not. It’s about:
Trust
Boundaries
Timing
And respecting everyone’s pace
Each dog needed something different:
Mesa needed clear limits and redirection
Milo needed reassurance
Mila needed… her space and zero eye contact
When I stopped forcing one system to fit them all, they found peace — together.
And so did I.
🫶 Final Thought — The Bowl Is Just the Beginning
It’s strange, how the smallest things become the deepest lessons.
Dinner time, at its worst, was chaos. But dinner time, at its best… became a mirror.
A mirror that showed me who they were. Who I was. And what it really takes to live — and lead — with balance.
It’s not about the food. It’s about the trust it takes to eat near someone else. To be vulnerable. To stay in your lane. To not reach for more than what’s yours.
And maybe that’s what real peace looks like — not everyone eating the same way, but everyone eating together.
Because when three wildly different dogs can learn to share space, follow structure, and find harmony… there’s hope for all of us.
Even if someone still tips their bowl sometimes.
Next time on The Bark Side Chronicles…Mesa faces her toughest training challenge yet: impulse control at the dog park. Mila refuses to engage with “strangers and their energy.” Milo? He’s busy trying to broker peace through polite sniffs and side-eye.
Stay tuned.
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